Last week, we gave tips for the Best Man, letting him know what to expect and what he should be mentally prepared for. This week, we cover the backbone of the wedding –The Maid of Honor. Being a MOH is as fun as it is tiring. Seriously, after being a MOH you should be able to cite event planner, managerial experience and social worker on any Résumé. Your responsivities should be covered in detail between the bride and you, but these general tips can assist any maid-to-be.
Scheduling, Scheduling, Scheduling
Is the Bride flying friends and family in? How about making sure everyone can make it to the dress fittings? Bridal showers? Bachelorette party? Dress rehearsal? Rehearsal dinner? Organizing these events will not be on your shoulders alone, but you will often be called upon to help with the scheduling and keeping both the bridal party and groomsmen informed on dates and times. Create an event planner early on and utilize social media tools (like Facebook groups) to ease the burden of keeping everyone in the know.
Chief Assistant and Support Structure
There’s no two ways around it. The Bride is going to need you by her side. Not just to help her dress and hold her bouquet during the vows, but also getting her anything she needs (just never be far from a cup of water, or tissues, or makeup, or anything for-that-matter). You will be the head secretary and chief counselor. Just don’t hesitate to deputize the other bridesmaids. You are only one woman, after all.
Make a Checklist
Create a detailed checklist. The earlier the better. Not just the events (like the shower) but also the little details like making sure the Bride has her prescription medication, cellphone, and makeup. Going through a list of line items before the bridal party leaves for the ceremony may seem obtuse, at this point. But trust us, people will thank you for it.
